It's time!

It's time.

It's time to speak out.
It's time to be free.
It's time to let the whole world see.

It's time to let them see who I was meant to be.
It's time for them to see me.

It's time.

Written by: A. Stinson

Sex: Is it okay to change your mind?

Many people decide to be intimate while in a relationship. It is a way to show love and passion. What happens if someone decides he/she doesn't want to have sex right before the act? Is that okay? Read the article at the link below to find out!

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True Love

Are you looking for true love?
Do you feel like you keep meeting Mr. Wrong?
Do you wonder if you could do something different in relationships?

Learn how to find that special someone with just one tip of advice. Click the link below and find out how.

http://www.examiner.com/x-61996-Charlotte-Relationship-Advice-Examiner~y2010m8d11-A-sure-way-to-find-true-love

Sex!!!!!

No matter where you go, that three letter word always seems to pop up. If you are in a relationship, it definitely comes up in conversation. So what kind of sex are you having?

Visit the link and click on "What kind of sex are you having?" to find out: http://www.examiner.com/x-61996-Charlotte-Relationship-Advice-Examiner

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To Trust or Not Trust

In some relationships, trust becomes questionable. It is lost, and both parties are in desperate need to gain it back. Visit the link, click on the article, "Gaining trust that was lost,"and find out more about trust and gaining it back. Subscribe and post!!!!

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Good News

To all of my supporters and fans, thanks for being there for me and this blog. With the help of God and you all, I'm now a writer for a website. Please visit the link below for new articles and feel free to post comments. Remember feedback, helps me know what to write for my audience. Thanks so much, and I will continue to update the blog to let you all know what is going on with love.

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Passing Me By

It's not me....
It's that girl, this girl, and the girl over there.
Love keeps passing me by.

I pray and make a list.
I have talks with the evangelist....
But Love keeps passing me by.

Stay true to my virtue and values.
Always have hope and don't sing the wedding blues.
Yet Love keeps passing me by.

I see the bells, the rings, and flowers,
The dresses, the cake, and the columns that tower.
Is it me?

No.......

It's not me...
It's the friend, a cousin, a stranger, or ex-lover.
Love keeps passing me by.

Written By: A. Stinson

Illusions of Love

Relationships come and go. Love lingers and sometimes fades. But it's only after a relationship has ended that we realize the illusions of love. The fantasies that we put into our head to make the relationship work even though our hearts tell us otherwise. The ideas we persuade ourselves to believe in.

Illusions differ from person to person but there is one thing that all who share in these illusions have in common: the perception of these illusions are so real that only outsiders can see the reality. Friends, family, and other loved ones sense the truth and remind us of it, but we can be so deceived by the illusion that we believe no one, only the fantasy.

So let's face the reality. At some point, we've been in an illusion of love.

• You believed that the person you loved wanted to be with you the way you wanted to be with him/her.
• You believed the person you loved had changed and was a new person.
• You believed your man/woman was not cheating on you.
• You believed the person when he/she said, "I want to be with you" though he/she never asked to be in a relationship.
• You believed having a child would change the relationship.
• You believed changing yourself would make him/her love you more.

The list can go on, but it tells us is that illusions of love only serve us FALSE HOPE. It traps us into belittling ourselves and failing to realize our self worth. It prevents us from moving on because the illusion has made us feel safe and comfortable. Because of the false hope and deception it provides, some remain in the illusions of love for years. For the others who find reality, it hurts. It saddens you to know the truth and deepens the scars in your broken heart. But do realize a better day will come. When you find the person who is for you, he/she will fulfill all of your fantasies of how REAL love should and does exist.

The Twilight Debate

Since the first exposure to the Twilight series, women have been faced with the dilemma of choosing a side: "Team Edward" or "Team Jacob." While this may just seem like a movie fad, choosing a side and analyzing why you've chosen that side will tell you a lot about your desires within your love life.

For those not up to speed on these two characters, Edward is very chivarlous. He captivates women with his genuine charm as he professes his love and affection towards his lovely lady any moment he can get. He believes in virtue and bliss. While his rival, Jacob is playful yet masculine. Jacob displays his passionate feelings through words, jealousy, and anger. Let us not forget, he delights in the sex appeal.

We find these characteristics and learn to love some of them, but when discussed, most women automatically side with "Team Edward." So the question is - Why? Why do women pick Edward? Is it because he shows the kind of love we yearn for in a mate? Is he the man we want our spouse to be? Is it because he truly reminds us of the loved one we already have?

And what about the ones who pick Team Jacob. Is Jacob chosen because he's the Mr. Right Now who we want to fulfill every lustful desire with? Are we on his team because of his masculinity? Or is he chosen because some of us have falling so much out of love with love that we don't believe the Edwards exist; therefore, settling for Jacob?

Either way, the choice is yours. You have chosen. Now, you must figure out the reason for your selection and reflect to find an epiphany within your love.

He is...I am...

He is my truth.
He is my love.
He is my everything.

I am his muse.
He is my king.
Eternal bliss....is what this love brings?

Written by: Yours Truly (A. Stinson)